VIRGINITY RESTORATION-WHO & WHY
There are quite a few different reasons why a woman might want to become a virgin again:
- She may be marrying a man who expects her to be a virgin. In some cultures, this is an
absolute requirement. Sometimes it must be documented by bringing home, and displaying, a bed
sheet with blood from the honeymoon. In some countries, if her husband or his family simply
doubt her virginity, they can KILL her and not break any law. Amazing!
Horrifying! Sadly, it's true.
- Perhaps she is making a new life for herself, and wants to put the past behind her. Maybe
she was promiscuous or a prostitute.
- If she is trying to resolve an early trauma like rape or incest, she might want to erase the
physical signs of that.
- A woman entering a religious order that values chastity may want to prepare herself.
Various aspects of virginity restoration are discussed. Some women may want to refer to all the
sections. Other women will want less information.
I anticipate some feedback complaining that I am helping women deceive men. Let me address
this directly.
From the beginning of time, men have deceived women.
In my practice, I see the results, often tragic, of the deceptions of men:
- "You don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I'm sterile."
- "Try this drug. It's safe. You'll like it."
- "Relax. If you get pregnant, I'll marry you."
- "I haven't had sex with anyone but you, so you don't have to worry about STD's."
- "I can stop drinking anytime I want to."
- "I'm not married." or "I'm separated from my wife." or "I'm in the process of a divorce."
- "I know it will be your first time to have sex, but I love you. I'll never leave you."
From my experience of listening to tens of thousands of women, I believe that some men deceive
women, usually for selfish reasons. If a women wants to mislead a man, that's her choice. I can't
judge her. The end justifies the means, or it doesn't.
If a woman wants to become a virgin again, I will do what
I can to assist her.