There are two aspects of physical restoration: (1) Renewing the integrity of the hymenal ring, and (2) Improving the vaginal muscle tone.

(1) Hymenal ring restoration

This is a simple operation that any gynecologist should be able to do in the office with local anesthesia.

Each side of any of the breaks in the hymenal ring should be cut. The ring is then sutured back together with a single circular suture, burying the knot beneath the mucosa.

The choice of suture (always absorbable) depends on the time frame, choosing longer lasting material the longer it will be before the honeymoon. The size (thickness, strength) of the suture should be chosen appropriate to the individual.

The size of the restored hymenal ring should be about two centimeters (one inch) in diameter. When the woman has sex for the first time, there will be a definite "pop" which will convince even the most skeptical man.

The appearance of blood is often crucial. There are several ways to insure this, as the hymenal ring doesn't always bleed.

The women could take birth control pills, scheduling her menstrual period for the honeymoon. She would not tell her spouse, and would use a tampon. This would be removed just before intimate contact, so blood could come out.

Advanced methods to guarantee blood would include having a tube or syringe of blood, taken with an anti-clotting factor. The woman would secretly place this blood inside after having sex. A very sophisticated way would be to fill some gelatin capsules with blood and insert them just prior to having intercourse. The gelatin would melt and the blood would come out.

(2) Vaginal muscle strengthening

Make sure your vaginal muscles are strong. Exercise them frequently! With strong muscles, you can prevent penetration until you are ready to allow it. From the man's point of view, difficulty is difficulty, and presumed to be due to your inexperience.

Practice acting out how it will be the first time, pretending it's much more uncomfortable than it actually is. If women can fake orgasms convincingly (though they should not!), faking virginity should be quite easy.